KAMA SUTRA FOR
WOMEN
The Kama Sutra's Most Sacred
Sexual Position - Viparita Maithuna
by Debora Myers
The ancient text of the Kama Sutra holds
ancient sexual secrets that we can still use today for
unleashing the sacred energy of the universe through our bodies
most sensitive-erotic pleasure spot. If you have found your
G-spot then you will know what I'm talking about. This position
places a woman on the throne to her highest sexual potential,
which in turn opens the pathways to eliminating mental and
physical blockages connected to other aspects of her life.
The Viparita Maithuna is basically
the
woman on top position. This position allows for the woman to be
more in control of the sexual momentum. The freedom of movement
in the woman on top position gives us more control that is
needed when going for the ultimate orgasmic response. This in
turn allows her to experience kundalini.
This is the sacred energy or life force
which, according to David and Helen Ramsdale authors of 'Sexual
Energy Ecstasy' Peak Skill Publishing, "descends through the
crown into the bodymind. When it is reflected back up the spine
(which happens instantaneously) it is known as kundalini, the
sacred life force that rises with extra intensity in response to
sexual arousal, extreme emotions, crisis situations and
meditation." Don't let these esoteric words fool you, you are in
for the high of your life!!
First, build the sexual tension with
enough foreplay to get each other highly aroused. You must be
fully aroused before penetration. This makes you feel tighter as
you take his erection into you. (For our lesbian sisters, a
strap-on held firmly at the base of the ride-ee will help to
reach the woman in superiors sacred G-spot.
The Kama Sutra also instructs us that the
middle and ring finger held together can manually reach her
G-spot and she can be stimulated in that way by rhythmically
rubbing it. This is also a good way for our lover to locate it.
*It is located on the front wall of the vagina and is about the
size of a dime. It expands to the size of a quarter when she is
aroused.
Relax, let go and play, experiment with
different rhythms, and tilt your pelvis at different angles
until that unmistakable sensation is released. Squeeze your
pelvic floor muscles, tighten around him, you'll know when
you've found it. The arch of the penis, with you on top is
designed by nature to hit your spot so be patient and keep
trying. Sometimes it is easier for a woman to find it by
stretching her legs out straight along the outside of her
partner's legs, placing her horizontally on top of him/her.
This way you can become very intimate
kissing, licking and biting your lovers mouth, face, neck
and ears and vice versa. Dangle your nipples
in your lover's face to be nibbled. As your arousal increases
you may feel like pulling away and arching upwards,
concentrating now on the hot spot.
Don't be surprised if you feel a sensation
like that of urinating simultaneously as you orgasm. You may
feel a gush of fluid release, but this is not urine. It is a
fluid similar in make up to a man's ejaculate, without the sperm
of course! You have hit the jackpot, but you don't have to take
my word for it, try it yourself!
You may see vibrant colors, your legs may
stiffen then convulse and you most likely will cry out in
screams of joy! But don't stop at the first coming, catch your
breath and keep up the momentum, You may be in this for a long
ride! |