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Those who are strong followers of Personal Prophesy, the method of perceiving the future from ordinary playing cards which I use in readings, tend to come from all walks of life.

Many use the insightful messages of the cards to help them get ahead in their careers. Personal Prophesy is extremely accurate when it comes to professional pursuits.

Those in the entertainment business use this method to guide their futures, to help them know which projects are the right choices for them to commit to.

Housewives and others who want to keep tabs on their husbands and boyfriends use this method religiously. It is extremely good at catching cheaters in relationships!

Looking for love? The cards can guide you with astounding accuracy in that respect, as well as help you know precisely who your true friends are - and are not.

This method has been so life-changing for those who’ve learned it over the years that it has prevented suicides, cured bulimia and helped individuals around the world stop living unhappy, unfulfilling lives.

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Blessings,

Deborah Leigh

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Question #1: We Parted in Anger and He Died…Will I Ever Love Again?

Dear Deborah:

I had what I thought was a meaningful online relationship with a certain man (we also met in person). I discovered he was having online relationships with much younger women and lying to them. We had a nasty argument, and I told him I did not think it was right that he was leading these women on. He then stopped talking to me.

I received a message recently from one of the girls he had been talking to, that he had passed away. I am very upset that we could never make amends, I tried and had sent him numerous messages but he had blocked my email and would not respond.

I told him I loved him dearly and did not have any expectations of him, that I was happy just to be his friend.

I will never understand why he preferred to have a fantasy instead of maintaining a real friendship, I accepted the fact that he did not want a relationship with me and understood that he was not ready for one, since he had just come from a broken engagement, but I loved him with all my heart.

I don’t know if I can ever love someone that deeply again. I am wondering (hoping) if he was happy at the end of his life. I am wondering if he knew just how much I loved him. Can you give me some insight how he felt about me? I will miss him forever.

Signed, Amanda

Dear Amanda:

As I conduct your reading, it is clear that this man did indeed care for you very deeply. As oddly out of step as this may seem, considering how things between you had deteriorated, the fact is that the first card coming up in your reading to pertain to this man's thoughts about you is the Ten of Hearts. That card appears in your reading connected to the Nine of Hearts, indicating clearly feelings of love of the deepest kind.

On the other hand, the Ten of Clubs is also attached to his feelings for you - a card which characterizes legal matters, business contracts, "official" types of things in the form of property, financial holdings, stocks/bonds, etc. My perception is that while he felt a tremendous amount of love and affection for you, the "glitch" in those feelings is he was convinced it would be just another relationship which would inevitably end up broken and quite likely, in court, involving a settlement.

You wrote: "I will never understand why he preferred to have a fantasy instead of maintaining a real friendship," but intuitively speaking, you had more than a friendship with this man. He preferred a fantasy life only because fantasy couldn't hurt him. Reality, on the other hand, did hold the power to hurt him. Deeply.

Did he know how much you loved him? Oh, yes. He comes through in your cards as never having had feelings for the younger women he communicated with online. They are perceived to have been diversions, escapes, playthings, if you will. In your reading, the only one he had genuine feelings for is...you.

My perception is that he regrets terribly not having made amends with you, but he knows your heart. He is aware on the spiritual plane how much you think of him and

send your love to him. There is no doubt that you have forgiven this man for his foolish mistakes and that you only remember and cherish him with loving thoughts now.

In your cards I see nothing but encouragement, hope and potential that you will definitely love again. I perceive a man who lives very close to you in your neighborhood who has green eyes and light brown to auburn colored hair will understand completely your emotional struggle over this past relationship. The cards tell me this through the Six of Hearts, a beautiful, beautiful card indicating harmony, understanding, the promise of dreams and wishes concerning love becoming realized.

My perception is that he is in the process of departing a long-term relationship which has been quite devastating to him in many ways; it is through his own emotional hardship and his ability to understand yours that the two of you are perceived to develop a deep, loving relationship which will ultimately lead to a commitment of marriage.

A year from today, hon, your life will have become transformed. Remember these words from Richard Bach in regard to your own dream of achieving a truly loving relationship: "You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it come true."

Please take care.

Blessings,

Deborah

Question # 2: He's Married and Wants to See Me Again

Dear Deborah,

A married man and I have been in contact quite a bit since we formally parted some months ago. It seems to me that nothing has changed for him. He still wants to keep things as they were. Clearly he is missing me and wants me to meet him.

He wants to see me but I am hesitant and a bit afraid, quite frankly. I just don't want to be hurt again and I still really love him. I guess my question is should I see him? Do I insist on a separation, even though he doesn't do well with ultimatums? Do I just try to enjoy the time together without putting pressure on him? He still appears to be in denial about his marriage and about his true feelings for me. Ugh! I don't want to alienate him, but it feels like a delicate balance with regard to my own feelings and needs...what do you think?

Signed, Sarah

Dear Sarah,

Ordinarily, I try very hard to present recipients of these readings with choices rather than outright advising, "This is what I think you should do." In your case, however, I do feel that encouraging you to see this man (based on what I see in your reading) would actually do you a world of good.

I say this because your cards clearly show that you are entering a new phase of your own existence during this period - a phase where the intensity of your own professional accomplishment is seen to be leading you toward a point of profound change in terms of the way you think, feel and essentially, process your own personal experience.

Your life is, after all, rapidly growing and expanding on a daily basis. My perception is that you are widening your professional and social spheres by meeting people, propelling yourself forcefully through these new experiences toward a happy, abundantly-rich future.

He, on the other hand (as a result of his own choices to this point) is still very much mired in the past, still struggling in terms of the present to put his own life on a new, happier path to the future. Until he consciously makes the choice to live a happier, more fulfilling life for himself, he is perceived to face nothing but struggle, remaining right where he is: enduring a loveless marriage, continuing to be weak emotionally; in essence, squandering every chance he has before him to start over and become a truly happy man.

If you do decide to see him - as I believe your heart yearns to - my perception from your cards is that you will ultimately realize from these meetings with him that recent advancements in your own life have caused you to begin to outgrow, emotionally and spiritually, the deep attachment you've always felt for him.

I perceive from the Three of Hearts and the Two of Spades, which figure prominently in your reading in regard to this decision, that spending more time with him will naturally re-confirm to him how deep his feelings for you run, yes. But these meetings will also let you know that you have achieved new awareness for yourself as a result of your own recent experiences involving accomplishment and success which, just as naturally, will lead you to want more for yourself in the long run.

I sincerely do not feel that he will hurt you, Sarah, should you choose to take this path. If anything, my perception is that you will ultimately disappoint and hurt him without meaning to as your passion and deep desire to share a future with this man ultimately comes full circle, leaving you wanting and needing more for yourself emotionally in the future.

Blessings to you,

Deborah

Question #3: My Son is a Lazy Daydreamer

Q: I have a teenage son who literally seems good for nothing. We've had problems with him since the day he was born.

My husband and I have tried everything to get this boy ready to graduate from high school, which he did, and now embark on a life of his own. He only seems lazy, contrary and not willing to work at anything but his electronic piano which he plays constantly night and day.

I must admit he's good at the music he makes. He's never had a single lesson, but he composes music and imitates songs he hears like there is no tomorrow. We're scared he's going to be unable to hold a job or do anything productive with his life.

He's a good kid, I grant you - he doesn't take drugs or run around with a gang. He's been a mediocre student but did go to school everyday. The trouble is when he is at home; he either lies around daydreaming or spends hour after hour on that piano. What is your insight about our son? Is he as worthless as we fear he is? What can we do to get this kid motivated and ready to earn a living for himself? Please help us. We are at our wit's end.

Signed, One Frustrated Mother

Dear Mother:

Your son is definitely not worthless. As I conduct this reading for you, I find true genius in your cards where your son is concerned. He is perceived to be quite brilliant, answering a much higher calling for himself than the standard academics he's been offered in school during the hours he spends seemingly daydreaming and obsessing with his piano.

My perception is that your son is developing into a highly-gifted musician, at present experiencing extreme difficulty finding his place in the world. While other teens his age are out working and engaging in active social lives for themselves, your son feels compelled to spend time in seclusion, on his own. He isn't lazy or unmotivated. Rather, he is perceived to be trying to fit the mold expected of him, feeling terribly misdirected in the process in terms of his own natural abilities.

I suggest that you and your husband re-focus yourselves toward encouraging your son to make the most of his musical gift by entering local talent contests. While I don't perceive that he will win the first three contests he enters, he will gain enough stage experience and public attention to make it possible for him to audition and be accepted to perform with a well-known band becoming very popular in your community.

This group of musicians is perceived to be traveling the local nightclub circuit for the approximately next two year-period. Within this timeframe, they will be invited to participate in a regional tour with a famous headliner and soon after, secure an extremely promising recording contract for themselves.

By the time your son is in his mid-twenties, he is perceived to be well on his way to eking out a profitable career with his music. While he may not achieve personal stardom himself, I do perceive that he will establish himself as an extremely successful composer and background musician to several up-and-coming cross-country acts in the future.

Your cards indicate that you or your husband knows a gentleman socially who owns a music store. Get in touch with him. Ask him to offer your son a job. If you can get your son to spend one day working in that store, he will be crazy about the job.

Don't give up on him. He's going to make you awfully proud one day. I guarantee it!

Please take care.

Blessings,

Deborah

Question #4: Why Does He Seem to Distance Himself from Me?

Dear Deborah:

I am asking about my male "friend". I talked with him a while back and he tells me life is good except that he is having some work problems. I still think about him a lot and I actually talked to him today and he said he always thinks of me. But yet, I sense a distancing from him.

I always feel warmth when talking to him. Can you tell me about his life? Is he happy with the woman he's still with? Could you tell me what the cards say in relation to him?

I am married, female 40's. He is divorced, 40's. Thank you.

Signed, GiGi G

Dear GiGi:

Your cards indicate that for the present, this man has lulled himself into a period of complacency where his current relationship is concerned.

Intuitively speaking, men are notorious for thinking this way. They seem to possess an uncanny ability to distance themselves from their true feelings, to stick to "everyday business" and simply find a way to be satisfied with having made such a choice.

They generally don't stay with this line of thinking for very long. Eventually, they find themselves right back where they started, wishing they would have had the good sense to make a far better choice for themselves when they had the chance.

Men are very odd in terms of readings. While someone such as myself can clearly perceive the path men such as he 'should' take, men will tend to go entirely in the opposite direction.

It's been my experience over the years that this is classically the way men "learn" emotionally - by taking the wrong path first - mainly because they do tend to live their lives so emotionally distanced from their true feelings. We women are far more connected emotionally and therefore, tend to take the right path from the start, despite the amount of pain and hardship it may bring our way by doing so.

Do bear in mind that your marriage is perceived to present a serious roadblock in this man's mind. While he considers you to be a woman who truly understands him, he also considers you to be 'unattainable' in the way of a lasting, one-on-one relationship because you are still married. Naturally, he would do his best to distance himself and try to focus on other things due to that fact. My perception is that he cares for you very much, but he is trying to go on with his life, putting you in the category of being an extremely dear friend in the process.

Because this man does not come through in your cards as willing to enter into an extra-marital affair with you, your reading urges you to either: 1) fully concentrate on your marriage and let him go emotionally; or 2) choose to take positive, decisive steps toward bringing your marriage to a close, ready to start a new way of life for yourself.

This is a decision only you can make, GiGi. Please give it plenty of serious thought.

Blessings to you,

Deborah